Family is forever

 I am so thankful for everything I have learned in such a short period of time. You never realize how many things you need to learn in the future. Family is forever. This statement makes me want to always do what’s best for my family. Having a healthy relationship with my spouse will be very important to me. It’s also important to have a healthy relationship with your kids. Another important relationship to have is your kid’s relationship with each other. I didn’t have the best experience within this area. It can change your child as a whole. Not having this relationship, I tend to not trust anyone. Thinking about everyone and everything can be good to be true. Remind your child how much you love them on a daily basis. It’s important for them to know they are loved. There’s a youtube family that always says you are worth it to each other and anyone who watches. I think in the future, I will say this to my kids. I want my future kids to be happy mentally and physically. I know I still have a lot to learn. I only scratched the surface. Actually having kids will make me learn a lot. I can’t imagine starting a family right now. As a matter of a fact, thinking of being married sounds crazy. It seems like there’s no one in the world perfect for me. I know that’s not true, Heavenly Father has someone for me. The right time will come. For now, I need to be patient and prepare as much as possible. There are so many things I want my family to do. I look at other families and wish to be like them. I know not every family is perfect. Sometimes people are good at portraying that. I know everyone goes through adversity. Trials and tribulations will happen in the family. I want to learn how to deal with them in the best way. Patience is something I struggle with. I know this is a very important quality to have. I try to work on it every day. Something that helps me with patience is reminding myself that no one is perfect. Everyone has their bad days. Everybody makes mistakes. It is important to not let trials and tribulations consume your whole life. I know that family is forever. I will strive every day to prepare to bring them into my life someday.

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